Do you know about the sex that catches you?

Charly_Arjona
5 min readJul 3, 2024
Photo by Dani Guitarra on Unsplash

Yes.
Even if it’s not the right person.
Have you ever known that the man you’re with isn’t right for you, but you can’t help but see him again?
Have you ever wondered what keeps you next to someone who doesn’t give you what you really want?
Understanding that moving away from someone who isn’t right for you isn’t just a matter of willpower, but sometimes it’s difficult due to a hormonal issue, but difficult doesn’t mean impossible.
In the female brain, sex hooks you and that’s hormonal.
“Oxytocin” is a hormone that helps the brain establish lasting emotional relationships.
During sexual intercourse, this hormone is released, increasing the bond with the person you’re having sex with.
And when you orgasm, your oxytocin levels increase even more.
This causes two effects:
Feeling “in love” (hormonally speaking) with the person you’ve had sex with.
Wanting to have that oxytocin rush again, which you interpret as ‘wanting to see them again’
It’s clear that these effects fade in a couple of days, but the memory of the pleasure obtained is enough to confuse you and make you think that ‘that person’ is right for you.
Sex is not love!
The male and female brain are structured differently.
The area of the male brain dedicated to sex is much larger than that of the female brain.
While a woman who “repeats” with a man in a sexual relationship may “interpret” that there is something more than just sex in…

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